Recalling
your dreams has many benefits. You can
use dreams to inspire your artwork, get
to know yourself better, solve difficult
problems or answer tough questions, or
just share them with friends. Keeping
track of your dreams on a long-term
basis lets you watch your growth and
development over the years.
Dreams
are like soap bubbles, however. The
longer you wait to record them, the less
chance that any will still be around to
record. Sleep scientists estimate that
most people have 150,000 dreams in a
lifetime. While recalling and recording
that many dreams is more information
than anyone needs (remember poor Doug
Quaid [Arnold Schwarzenegger] in “Total
Recall”), keeping track of your longer,
more elaborate, most interesting dreams
is a gift you give yourself.
Use
all your natural resources to help you
recall your dreams. The combined efforts
of body, mind, and spirit will make the
task much easier.
Body
The
first thing to do is get a good night’s
sleep. Keep the room temperature at a
moderate level and make sure your pillow
and bed linens are clean and
comfortable.
The
longest REM (rapid eye movement) cycle
comes towards morning when dreams are
easiest to recall. You’ll remember more
dreams by waking naturally than by
waking to a jarring alarm clock.
Keep
materials for recording dreams at your
bedside. Buy a special pen and notebook
specifically designated for this purpose
or a tape recorder used for nothing
else. Record your dreams immediately
upon awakening -- before you get out of
bed and begin your day.
Mind
Tell
yourself before you go to sleep that in
the morning you will remember your
dreams. Convince yourself that it’s
going to happen. Be satisfied with one
dream at first; eventually with practice
you’ll be able to remember several
dreams from each night.
Record
dreams exactly as you remember them.
Don’t fill in the gaps with transitions,
logic, summaries, or translations from
your wide-awake conscious mind. If your
dog is outside, then the scene shifts to
your third grade teacher barking orders
in the classroom, say so.
You
don’t want to take shortcuts in
descriptions. The symbolism and
figurative speech used in dreams is half
the fun of dream recall.
Spirit
Appreciate your dreams and show them
some respect. Realize that not every
dream is insightful, but that all dreams
have something to offer, whether humor,
creative inspiration, physical warnings,
or unconscious perception.
Although dreams should be recorded
without initial judgment or analysis
based on the actions that occurred, give
each dream a succinct title that
expresses the emotions that you felt
and/or identifies a key character. Don’t
be afraid of violent or sexual dreams
from your unconscious mind that are
inconsistent with your conscious mind.
Write them down, title them, and read
them later when you no longer feel the
emotions of the dream.
Go
back and re-read your dream diary or
listen to your dream tapes in later
months or years. You’ll be amazed at
what people, places, and things consumed
your thoughts at the time, and at the
creative inspiration lurking within your
unconscious mind.
Copyright 2006 Leslie Halpern
Leslie
Halpern is the author of “Dreams on
Film. The Cinematic Struggle Between Art
and Science” (McFarland & Company), a
book that analyzes representations of
sleeping and dreaming in the movies. She
has kept a dream diary for 25 years.
This article is an excerpt from her
presentation on “Dream Artistry” that
she delivers at workshops and retreats.
She is also the author of “Reel Romance.
The Lovers’ Guide to the 100 Best Date
Movies” (Taylor Trade Publishing), a
book that reviews date movies for
couples, and suggests romantic ideas
inspired by these films. Her articles
have appeared in hundreds of
entertainment trade and consumer
magazines. Visit Leslie’s website at
http://home.cfl.rr.com/lesliehalpern/leslie_halpern.htm